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When upsetting news keeps you scrolling: a guide for Singapore

You can care about what is happening without spending every spare moment refreshing the news.

By Counsilio · Published 7 October 2026 · General wellbeing information

If upsetting news keeps pulling you back, decide what you need to know before you open the feed. Check a reliable source for that information, identify any action you need to take, and choose when to check again. A pause can make room for the rest of your day; it does not mean you have stopped caring. Keep information you genuinely need for safety, work or loved ones accessible.

You read a difficult headline on the MRT. At lunch, you look for an update. Then a clip arrives in the family chat, followed by a comment thread. By evening, you have seen the same event from several angles but are no clearer about what you need to do.

This is an imagined Singapore day, not a customer story. The problem is not that you care too much. It is that checking has become the activity itself, with no clear point at which you can put the phone down.

Notice when reading turns into repeated checking

“Doomscrolling” is a common word for continuing to scroll through upsetting content. It is not a diagnosis you can give yourself from one difficult evening. Digital for Life hosts TOUCH Community Services' guidance on mindful scrolling, including setting an intention and noticing how online time affects you.

A study published online in October 2022 found associations between doomscrolling, psychological distress and wellbeing. That does not establish that scrolling causes a disorder, or give everyone a proven safe number of minutes. Here, the useful question is simpler: “Am I getting information I need, or rereading because I still feel unsettled?”

You might notice yourself refreshing without a new question, opening another version of a story you already understand, or continuing even though you intended to eat, sleep or speak to someone. Use that observation as a cue to choose what happens next, rather than as another reason to criticise yourself.

Give the next news check a job

Before opening an app, name the information you are looking for. “Is there an official travel update for my route?” has a possible answer. “Can I keep checking until nothing bad can happen?” does not.

A small plan for an ordinary news check

What I need to know: Has anything changed that affects what I should do?

Where I will look: The original report or relevant official update, rather than a chain of forwarded clips.

What comes next: Take the needed action, or close the app and return at a time I choose.

This is an original practical example, not a tested treatment plan. Adapt it: a person waiting for news from family abroad may need a different arrangement from someone reading general headlines on a lunch break.

When a message is alarming, check who published it, when it was posted and what the original report actually says before forwarding it. Singapore's National Library Board uses the S.U.R.E. framework: Source, Understand, Research and Evaluate, with resources for assessing information. A familiar sender is not the same thing as a verified source.

Choose one or two sources suited to the question. Reopening the same comment thread may add reactions without adding the fact you need. If a report concerns an immediate local risk, follow the relevant authorities' current instructions. A general suggestion to take a break should never replace a real safety plan.

Make a break possible without cutting yourself off

Try reducing optional news prompts first. Mute a repetitive group thread for a while, turn off alerts that are not needed, or move a news app away from the screen you open automatically. Keep important contacts and safety alerts available. TOUCH's original guidance suggests purposeful online time, limits and checking in with how you feel. The aim is a workable choice, not a perfect digital detox.

If your body still feels tense after a clip, pause somewhere safe. Feel your feet against the floor and notice a few things you can see and hear around you. Then choose a small next action, such as finishing your meal or calling someone you trust. This draws on WHO's grounding exercises. Keep your attention on your surroundings when travelling; one pause is a practical skill, not a guarantee that distress will disappear.

Talking can be more useful than sending another disturbing video. You could say, “That news has been on my mind. Could we talk for a few minutes, without replaying the clips?” Ask before sharing graphic material. Someone can care about the event and still not want to watch it.

If you want to help, choose a concrete action you can reasonably take: check on someone affected, use a verified assistance route, or read a reliable explanation of what is known. You do not need to turn every break into a good deed to earn it. Rest and ordinary life can sit alongside concern.

What if my family is directly affected?

Then the need for updates is real. Agree, where possible, how you will contact each other and which source has useful safety information. Keep essential messages accessible and follow relevant local instructions. Between meaningful updates, ask someone you trust for company or practical help. Do not use a scrolling limit to ignore an urgent message, and do not judge yourself for needing more support.

Should I stop reading the news completely?

There is no single rule for everyone. You might try checking at chosen times, using fewer sources or taking a break from graphic clips while keeping factual updates. Notice whether the arrangement helps you carry on with your day. If repeated checking remains hard to interrupt or the distress grows, seek support rather than making stricter rules your only response.

When to seek support in Singapore

If worry is persistent, worsening or disrupting sleep, eating, relationships or your ability to work, speak with a doctor or mental health professional. You can ask for help even if you were not directly affected by the event. If an event has affected you or someone close to you, support may also include practical assistance and help from people around you.

For medical assessment, MOH lists participating GPs and polyclinics providing mental health care. Check the current service information; provision differs. In Singapore, national mindline provides round-the-clock support at 1771, with text and webchat routes listed by MOH. You can call 1771 without contacting Counsilio first.

For a life-threatening medical emergency or immediate danger of harming yourself, call 995 or go to an emergency department. SCDF explains the emergency ambulance route.

For your next check, choose one question you actually need answered. When you have the answer—or there is no new information—you can return to your day. Caring does not require an open news feed all the time.

Sources checked 7 October 2026. Counsilio is the organisational author and publisher; research and writing were AI-assisted. The commute scene, phrases and news-check plan are original illustrations. No clinician review is claimed.